Dating Safety

We want you to have a fun, respectful, and safe experience. This page explains simple, practical steps you can take to protect yourself—online and in person—and how to get help if something doesn't feel right.

18+ only. You must be at least 18 to use this service. Impersonation, AI-generated faces, deepfakes, and stolen photos are not allowed.

Core Principles

  • Protect your privacy. Keep your last name, exact address, workplace, daily routines, and financial details private.
  • Move at your pace. Real connections don't require pressure, urgency, or secrecy.
  • Verify early. A quick video call or voice note can save you time and risk.
  • Keep money out of it. Love doesn't need loans, gift cards, GCash/PayPal/Zelle, crypto, or "fees."
  • Meet publicly. First meets should be in well-lit, public places—tell a friend and control your own transport.
  • Report and block. If someone breaks the rules or feels unsafe, use the in-app tools and let us know.

Before You Match

  • Use recent, clear photos of yourself (no minors, no explicit content).
  • Avoid photos that expose home location (street signs, condo/plate numbers, school badges).
  • Create a unique email and strong, unique password; turn on 2-factor authentication if available.

While Chatting

  • Keep conversations in-app until you feel comfortable.
  • Be careful with links and files; don't download unknown attachments.
  • If the vibe shifts to pressure, guilt, love-bombing, or secrecy, slow down or step away.
  • Verify identity before getting more personal: ask for a quick video call, or a selfie doing a simple gesture (today's date on paper).

Red Flags & Common Scams

Watch out for patterns like these:

  • Romance/investment hybrid: Fast affection + "sure win" trading/crypto/forex.
  • Emergency money ask: Illness, customs fees, visas, package releases, stranded travel, "unpaid phone bill," etc.
  • Job or modeling "opportunities" that request fees, IDs, or explicit content.
  • Sextortion: Someone pressures for intimate photos, then threatens to share them unless paid.
  • Catfishing & deepfakes: Too-perfect photos, inconsistent stories, refuses live video.
  • Rapid off-platform shift: Insists on moving to another app immediately and becomes pushy.

If any money or gifts are requested—stop, block, and report.

Money & Financial Safety

  • Never send cash, gift cards, crypto, or transfers to someone you have not met and trust.
  • Don't share bank numbers, OTPs, card photos, or QR codes.
  • If you suspect fraud, freeze your cards/accounts and contact your bank right away.

Photos, Video, and Intimate Content

  • Assume anything sent online can be saved or shared.
  • Don't share explicit images—especially with faces, tattoos, or identifiable backgrounds.
  • If pressured for intimate content, say no, block, and report.
  • If sextortion happens:
    1. Stop responding and do not pay.
    2. Save evidence (screenshots, handles, links).
    3. Report to us and your local cybercrime unit.

Planning an In-Person Date

  • Meet in public (café, mall, busy restaurant) for the first few meets.
  • Daylight or early evening is safer for a first meet.
  • Share your plan (who/where/when) and the person's profile with a trusted friend.
  • Arrange your own ride both ways; avoid letting them pick you up at home.
  • Keep valuables minimal; charge your phone and keep it accessible.
  • Set boundaries in your mind before you go (physical intimacy, alcohol limits, time you'll leave).

During the Date

  • Keep drinks/food in sight; if you step away, order a fresh one.
  • Listen to your instincts—you can leave at any time.
  • If someone ignores boundaries or pressures you, end the date and go somewhere safe.

After the Date

  • Check in with the friend you informed.
  • If something felt off, block and report. You don't owe anyone continued contact.

Protecting Your Account

  • Use a unique password and enable 2FA.
  • Log out of shared devices; don't reveal verification codes.
  • Beware of fake "support" accounts asking for passwords or payments.

Community Standards (Quick Reminders)

  • No hate, harassment, threats, or doxxing.
  • No minors in any photos or content.
  • No AI-generated faces/deepfakes or stolen images.
  • No solicitation of money or commercial sex.
  • Consent matters—always.

How to Report & Get Help

  • In-app: Open the profile or chat → Report/Block → choose the reason and submit details/screenshots.
  • Emergency: If you feel in danger, contact local authorities immediately.
    • Philippines: Dial 911 for emergencies.
    • Traveling? Look up your local emergency number (e.g., 112/999 in many countries).

We review reports promptly and may warn, suspend, or ban accounts that violate our rules. Severe or repeated violations lead to permanent removal.

For Locals & Expats Meeting in the Philippines (Extra Tips)

  • Agree on well-known venues (malls, coffee chains, hotels) with visible security.
  • Use reputable ride-hailing; check driver and plate inside the app before boarding.
  • If crossing language or culture differences, clarify expectations early (pace, exclusivity, finances, boundaries).
  • Keep copies of your ID secure; don't hand over passports or visas to anyone you just met.

If Something Feels Wrong

  • It's okay to unmatch, block, and leave—no explanation needed.
  • You won't be penalized for reporting in good faith.
  • If you need support after a difficult interaction, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, counselor, or local support service.

Contact

Questions? support@filipinameet.com