What type of relationships do foreign men seek with Filipinas?

Marriage, long-term girlfriend, holiday companion, casual dating, or short-term vacation relationships. Define your goals before pursuing someone.

Do most Filipinas want marriage?

Many Filipinas prefer traditional relationships and marriage, though younger women in cities may be more open to casual dating.

What is a "holiday girlfriend" in the Philippines?

A sexual companion you travel with during vacation. The relationship usually ends when you go home, unless you develop real feelings.

Filipina Relationship Goals & Expectations: What Do You Really Want?

Define Your Filipina Relationship Goals First

Setting clear filipina relationship goals before your trip is essential. There is no denying that most tourists who come to the Philippines are single men looking to get into a traditional relationship with a Filipina.

Traditional Marriage as a Filipina Relationship Goal

Some guys are genuinely looking for a traditional woman to marry because most are sick of many third-wave feminist women of the West who act masculine themselves, which is the biggest turn-off for real men who are not overly submissive.

Long-term girlfriend (not wife)

Many men want to find a long-term partner, but many men who have divorced in the past only want a long-term girlfriend rather than a wife, as they do not want to be burnt again regarding losing their resources to a woman and having their heart broken.

Holiday girlfriend

Some guys just want a “holiday girlfriend” who is a sexual companion they can hang with and travel with while they are on vacation. Once they go home, that type of relationship usually ends, unless they hit it off and fall in love.

The player

Fourth, there is the guy who may have lined up a bunch of Filipinas on Facebook or a dating site, and he will date them and try to have sex with as many of those dates as possible.

The sexpat

Lastly, there is the guy who is a straight-out sexpat and will usually come loaded up with bottles of Viagra or Cialis pills and go to the bars or KTV bars nightly and have as much sex as he can get.

These self-centered guys are usually drunks, and their vacation is usually all about eating, drinking, and sex. The local culture and traditions are of no interest to them. Filipinas are just pieces of meat to them to be used for their sexual pleasure.

Establish your goals

You certainly need to establish what you want relationship-wise before you arrive in the Philippines. If it is a long-lasting relationship you want, you need to know what a good and genuine Filipina is, where to find them, how to approach them, and what they want out of a relationship with you.

Find matches based on your goals

Use FilipinaMeet to find Filipinas whose relationship goals match yours. Be honest in your profile about what you are looking for to attract compatible matches.